Friendship is a very loving relationship of mutual affection between people, or the passionate feeling that two or more people have for each other. The word friendship is used for the state of being friends. Friendship involves some pure kind of love and concern for each other. Friendship plays an important role in our lives. They’re often the family we choose. If a person feels lonely or is worried about anything, he knows that his problem will be resolved by just talking to his best friend. If a person wants to create a positive change in life or wants to break any bad habit, only a good friend can help in this situation.
A true friendship makes us feel alive but not all friends are true. These friendships can hurt in a most possible way, even the best friendships can fall apart and it is really hard to describe the feeling of that person. Break up is somewhat more than the worst. But what if you break up with your best friend? Whom do you turn to then? Or who do you text at 2 A.M? No one wants to end friendship.
FRIENDSHIP BREAKUP:
Some common reasons that lead to break friendship are mentioned below:
- Most common reason that effect friendship can be misunderstandings. These small misconceptions can destroy everything.
- One gets jealous of the other, such that if one of them is prettier or more successful, than instead of being happy he/ she gets jealous and these results in break up.
- Sometimes, involvement of third random person ruins a perfect bonding.
- When, one breaks the trust of other by lying over and over again. This shatter the trust and trust is most basic thing in any relationship.
- When one of the two friends is too busy in his life, neither meeting nor calling/ texting messages to his friends, this makes friendship weak.
- Some of the school’s friendships broke when they grew up, due to their different colleges and institutes. Shifting from one phase of life to another can impact a friendship.
- Similarly, growing from childhood to adolescence realizes that the things in common become less important and new things matter. Interests change with the passage of time, so this ends the bond.
- Words, carelessly spoken, is one of the main reasons which destroy friendship.
- Moreover, ignorance also leads to end friendship; one should never ignore other and always listen to the other.
Fights and broken trust by best friends give us the most important lessons of the life. They came in life just to teach us, they came in life to give us the lesson. Both sides must put efforts to grow friendship stronger.
SUMMARY: Transparency is important in friendship, it makes friendship healthier. Deeper friendships are based on trust and mutual support as well as shared interests.
SAD FRIENDSHIP QUOTES
Quotes are actually the “sayings” of different people who share their feelings or experiences of hurt and regret. There are some deep, sad friendship quotes shared by different writers:
- “In the end, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends.” — Martin Luther King, Jr.
- “I’d rather have no friends than fake ones.” — Author Unknown.
- “Don’t feel sad over someone who gave up on you, feel sorry for them because they gave up on someone who would have never given up on them.” — Frank Ocean
- “Friendships cause heartbreaks too.”
- “Friendship changes over time but fun is when the time changes and friends do not change.” (Himanshu Bhardwaj)
- "Mirror is my best friend, because when I cry it never laughs.” (Charlie Chaplin)
- "I sometimes sit and wonder: Was, "I was your best friend?”
- “So many friendships ended just because we didn’t message them first”.
- “Friendship is delicate as a glass, once broken it can be fixed but there will always be cracks.” (Waqar Ahmed)
- “I didn’t lose a friend. I just realized I never had one.” — Author Unknown.
- “We fear our enemy but the bigger and real fear is that of a fake friend, who is sweetest to your face and most vile behind your back.” (Mufti Ismail Menk)
- “If you are successful, you will win false friends and true enemies.”
- “Losing a best friend is losing a part of ourselves.”(Helder Diniz)
- “What hurts the most? When your best friend replaces you with another best friend.”
- “The reason this separation hurts so much is because our souls are connected.” (S.R.A)
- “People always change and sometimes friends turn to be strangers but the all the memories never change.”
- “It hurt because it mattered.” (John Green)
- “The worse things in life / More than losing a life / is losing a best friend.” (Tirso Gomez)
- “A best friend is someone who understands you a bit more than you understand yourself.” — Author Unknown.
- “No person is your friend who demands your silence, or denies your right to grow.”(Alice Walker)
- “We never lose friends; fake ones are exposed.” (Carlos Wallace)
- “When a friendship is ending, if we could simply feel our feelings and move on, we would hurt less.” (BJ Gallagher)
- “That horrible moment your heart crashes as you realize the friendship has played itself out.”
- “When everything is lonely I can be my best friend.” (Canor Oberst)
- “If you lose a friend because you’re honest, it wasn’t a good friend.”
- “What is a friend? I will tell you … it is someone with whom you dare to be yourself.” (Frank Crane)
- “Sometimes things change and friends leave. Life doesn’t stop for everyone. In that way moving on is the best way to choose.”
- “The sword wounds the body, but words wound the soul. These are the wounds I received in the house of my friends.” (Zechariah)
- “A friendship that can cease has never been real.”(St. Jerome)
- “Don’t waste your time with explanations; some friends only hear what they want to hear.” (Paulo Coelho)
- "It really hurts… When you lose the one who you thought was your best friend. It hurts when they ignore you, break promises and forget.” (Priyanka Dhar)
HOW TO FIX A BROKEN FRIENDSHIP
Every friendship goes through ups and downs. It is really hard to fix a broken friendship but one should always give it a try to repair it. Following suggestion may help you to fix broken friendship, if you apply them wholeheartedly:
- Give them a little space and time, let the dust settle first.
- Ego is an additional obstacle between your friendship, so first you have to remove it.
- Feel free to talk them about the problem. Get to the bottom of it and move forward.
- Do listen to them; you should understand their perspective and position.
- Apologize to them or accept their apology , sincerely. Saying sorry will eases their pain.
- Send your friend texts or calls and tell him you miss their bond.
- Avoid starting the arguments again. It is important to keep away from anything hurtful during the whole conversation.
- If you really want to rebuild you friendship, leave your anger, and ask your friend to leave the past behind and look to the future. And, the most importantly, the final thing is to rebuild respect for each other.
CONCLUSION
Friendship can be either blessing or a curse. Those who have the real best friends are the luckiest people of the world. Best friends are the real ones after family but sometimes this bond ceases and this breaks our heart. Disagreements or arguments can dissolve a friendship. Closer the friendship, the more it is going to hurt. There are many people in your life who stay during the good time but whenever bad time comes they leave, when you need help they will never come to you. But we always have an option to fix or mend our broken friendship by rebuilding the trust for each other. Above, many sad friendship quotes are mentioned, so have a look.