The easiest and simplest meaning to the phrase “Real Eyes, Realize, Real Lies” The vision of honest truth can and will always identify the sight of deception. Individuals who take the trouble to pay attention (“real eyes”) can see through (“realize”) the lies (“real lies”) of other people.
Real Eyes Realize Real Lies (Fake Love In Our Society Now-a-days)
Have you ever asked yourself why at-times it’s very tough to differentiate between fake love and real love in the relationships we find ourselves connected in? How can we really describe a fake relationship? According to my point of view, it’s an illusion that we have come to trust in, an illusion of a long lasting real relationship.
Without even knowing most of the people are in fake relationships. It takes a lot of efforts what you might be having is an affair and real relationships, no doubts there, but in the end they are always better than fake ones commonly because fake relationships are self-centered.
There is a huge distinction between someone just saying those love related things to you and someone that really means those things. There are many things that need to be think about in order to be in a ‘real relationship’ because one can easily influence someone and fool them into trusting that they actually love them as I clearly described it before. Many people try to get in relationships just to get in their ‘pants’ or it’s more like a ‘time-pass’ kind of a thing.
The following are the some indications that you need to keep an eye on and prevent yourself from being influenced and fooled:
1. The Communication Sucks
Good communication is necessary for a healthy relationship. If you are in a relationship where you two hardly communicate, you can’t remember the last time you had a heart to heart conversation with your loved one, you just text each other every once in a while, it’s just at intervals, you are not aware of what’s going on in the other person’s life and it commonly feels like you don’t know the other individual then you’re not actually in a relationship
You form an actual bond only when you feel engaged with your partner; physically, mentally and emotionally. If you get to know normal daily things about your partner through social media or someone else or even their birthdays from Instagram or facebook notification, you’re surely not in a real relationship.
2. Too much Public Display of Affection
This might come as a startle you two are sensibly nibbling on each other, isn’t that a best thing? No, it isn’t. This is symptomatic of over-compensatory and pretentious behavior. You are trying to put on a manifest, a make-believe. It’s a way of continuing the illusion that you guys have made, to lie to yourself and the other people you. You might be in a wrong relationship and still cope to hear things like; ‘What an ideal couple you guys are’, ‘You make us want to have a relationship like yours’ etc.
You both need to ask each other questions like do you even want to stay with each other know what’s going in the wrong direction. It is kind of pleasure, seeing a couple holding hands or hugging. I mean, clearly, kissing in public shouldn’t be one of those prolonged ones that end up in making out, and there shouldn’t be grasping in public either, but a little public display of affection is sweet though it can be easily deceiving. It is not always the way it seems like. If you see a couple smiling and holding hands together out in public, it doesn’t actually mean they are happy with each other.
3. There are no remarkable moments
The relationship just feels normal nothing special. You guys don’t have any extraordinary memories together and there are no exceptional feelings attached to the time you guys spend with each other. This shouldn’t be the matter, love is a unique feeling and if it feels anything less than amazing you’re not actually in love.
4. There is a lot of Confusion
Firstly, we all are a little bit confusing not sure what to feel or if it’s alright to feel this way, unaware of your partner’s feelings, spending hours examining whether he or she loves me or not; however, after you have spent remarkable time with your partner and you can’t actually give substance to how you feel or if your partner actually loves you and you are not trying to do anything about this confusion of feelings and continue to proclaim love then this is a definitive sign of a fake relationship.
Real eyes realize real lies this quote basically means that the vision of honest truth can and will always identify the sight of deception. Without even knowing most of the people are in fake relationships. There is a huge distinction between someone just saying those love related things to you and someone that really means those things.
5. Serious Discussions are off limits
This is an augmentation of bad communication. A couple has foolish conversations as well as serious conversations. You are not right to think that an ideal relationship is one with no arguments and heated conversations. A happy couple talks about things that important and it does not reduce their love for each other. If you guys avoid having consequential discussions and talk about superficial things like the weather, then your relationship is too good to be real or true.
If you actually care about things, then there is no way you can go without fights every now and then. Opening up in front of someone is not actually easy, telling that someone all things about you, your secrets, is not easy. Having that courage to open up in front of your loved one is what’s required. But if you two don’t know the actual ins and outs about each other, for instance, stuff from each other’s past then well, you both required to sit down and have that talk quickly.
6. There is a power struggle
Letting go of your egos is necessary for a healthy relationship. You are in a relationship where someone always has to be at right point, it doesn’t important how it affects your relationship, all that important is being right! This means that there is a deficiency of love in the relationship, because when you are in love you are more plaint, more concerned about your partner’s feelings and being right doesn’t always important.
Remember, winning a discussion is not actually a victory in a relationship. If you can cross your boundaries just to prove a point to someone, then that means your ego is too much and you don’t care about that person. You can be at right point, but that doesn’t mean that you can say anything to the other person. You have got to be conscious about their feelings as well. If a person can let go their ego and confess a fault they did not even commit, just for you, there is no other person more perfect for you than this one.
7. You don’t know each other’s family and friends
A person who takes you serious and wants to make you a part of his or her life, will always introduce you to his or her family and friends. If it’s been a while and you still haven’t met each other’s family and friends it doesn’t seem to trouble one or both of you, this means the person doesn’t want to get ‘too engaged’ and has set boundaries to how far the relationship will go.
8. There is a sexual Chemistry
You guys are too attractive for each other in bed, but when it comes to communication and talking you guys are ignorant or just not interested. The only way you guys feel in accompany is by means of physical contact. This simply means that you are in erotic relationship and once the passion for each other dies, so will the relationship. This is a very general, characteristic indication of a relationship being timely.
‘Friends with advantages’ is obviously not the relationship you’re searching for here. The relationship where you want to have actual feelings, passion, trust and feel loved. It was said before in the article that mostly a relationship is made just to ‘get in your pants’. Most of the couples try to do that now-a-days, they will say some things to the girl that will make her feel like the special girl of the world, feel like she’s the only one for this person, feel actually loved, but it is only to have erotic relations with that girl.
Individuals who take the trouble to pay attention can see through the lies of other people. Arguments exists in every true relationships. You cannot say that if there is an argument in the relationship then the relationship is fake. A person who takes you serious and wants to make you a part of his or her life, will always introduce you to his or her family and friends.
Frequently Asked Questions
Here are some frequently asked questions:
What does the phrase “real eyes realize real lies” means?
This is a statement by Tupac Shakur. “Try not to trust everything you hear. Real eyes realize real lies”. Remember this statement comes from a hooligan, somebody whos dearest companions deceived him, betrayed him, and put him in the hospital with 5 shots to the chest. That experience was an education to Tupac, think about all that you hear while taking other factors into consideration, individuals lie and influence. This is particularly pervasive these days with online media where everybody is not real as it were. Superstars with photoshopped pictures, and different things. Whoever referenced “Jaden Smith” this comes from a man of a lot more wisdom insight than that.
How can mirrors be real if our eyes are not real?
This is more of a philosophical inquiry - how might we be certain what is genuine if we see everything around us with our abstract senses. Mirrors do nothing aside from reflecting light (distorted once in a while). Everything around us is genuine because our senses disclose to us it’s genuine… however, right?
Also, to cite one of my favourite movies :
“What is real? How would you characterize ‘real’? In case you’re discussing what you can feel, what you can smell, what you can taste and see, at that point ‘real’ is just electrical signs deciphered by your mind.”
What does “an eye for an eye” really mean?
“An eye for an eye makes the entire world visually impaired”. The primary student’s translation of this quote is that two wrongs don’t make a right. You can’t legitimize wrong by accomplishing something similarly wrong. Say for instance somebody committed murder, rather than giving the killer death penalty, we should focus on rebuffing him in a more rehabilitative way than to end his life.
The family of murder victims are sometimes left devastated and the last thing they would need is to dissuade the killer. An eye for an eye leaves the entire world blind, looks for comprehension of the wrong order, by getting to the root of the reason and not by wiping out the perpetrator.
Real eyes realize real lies this quote basically means that the vision of honest truth can and will always identify the sight of deception. Without even knowing most of the people are in fake relationships. There is a huge distinction between someone just saying those love related things to you and someone that really means those things. If you get to know normal daily things about your partner through social media or someone else or even their birthdays from Instagram or facebook notification, you’re surely not in a real relationship. Individuals who take the trouble to pay attention can see through the lies of other people. Arguments exists in every true relationships. Winning a discussion is not actually a victory in a relationship. If you can cross your boundaries just to prove a point to someone, then that means your ego is too much and you don’t care about that person. A person who takes you serious and wants to make you a part of his or her life, will always introduce you to his or her family and friends.