Education with fun sounds interesting when it comes to kids who don’t want to do this. Every kid wants fun in his life. And if the fun is mixed with education results are awesome. First of all you have to learn about the psychology of kids. The energy level of kids is very different from us they want new each and every time. They want to do the same thing with different way they want fun on every step whether it’s about diedlt or it’s about learning process.
Montessori education system came into being for this purpose to educate the the things with fun with the help of different rhymes ,creative work, practical activities, playing games mind games colourful classes ,charts. And you can see the the successful results of Montessori learning system.
Kids psychology is very different
Psychology is very different from older ones they live in cartoons, have their own imagination, take the things lightly, love to remain active every time . Kids don’t want to stay silent and relax .They engage theiselves with activities. And they became more excited when their parents join them ine games or any other healthy activity
Kids are full of enthusiasm
Yes it’s true, their emotions are are very loud. they openly speaks about their likeness and unlikeness. You cannot force them to do things which they don’t like. And they can obey your impossible things easily. So we can say that kids are unpredictable.
Symptoms that indicates your kid is upset
Here we will discuss different symptoms that indicate that your kid might upset. Because you spend time with your kid when he behaves abnormal this is the time you should take this seriously.
Attention seeking activities
If your kid is behaving in the way that is different from normal. And he is doing the things like weeping, angry on small things. He is lacking your attention for seeking attention he is doing like that.
Little stubbornness is in kid’s nature but when it exceeds you have to take care about it. On little thing stubbornness shows that he is upset on anything but he hasitates to tell you.
Lack of energy
Sense we told earlier that kids are full of energy.
So if you feel lack of energy it might be reason of health issue or he is fearing . Mostly kids don’t want to sit idle.
If you kid is continuously misbehaving it also indicates that something is serious. Usually kids love their parents and don’t want to miss behave with them when your kid start misbehaving it’s time for counselling.
Decline in performance
Brilliant students always show good performance in classroom as well as in home but sometime brilliant students performance in the class continuously declines. You should take it seriously too.
When kids start isolation it means he is diverting from track because kids love friends and spend their time in schools mostly with friends. It also indicates someone may bullying your kid.
Taking advice negatively
When kids start taking advice negatively every time it means his behaviour is rebellious and something is pinching him. Moreover in case of girls they are mostly soft spoken. They usually don’t take advices negatively it so happened something is wrong.
If kids don’t want to go school or they are making lame excuses everyday. As a result their absenties increased. If you want to stay home instead of going school it’s another symptom of upsetness.
It is observed that many well of students start stealing when they are upset. They do it unnecessarily and don’t admitt it, also very serious situation.
When your kid start riots in school. His attention is school studies declines.snese of revenge develops in him.And when he is insulted by teachers and parents.he become more rebilious.
What to do…
Don’t be penic here are some simple steps that you can do…
Strategy for attention seekers kids
Some kids are attention seeker by nature, in case of sisters and brothers some kid feel Jealousy and for seeking attention they do wrong things for this you have to deal them according to their nature special behave is in its nature then you realise him oftenly by your actions . For example
Giving him extra chocolate hiding from other kids. In such way a kind friendship will develop between you and kid. He will obey you and will be good in education.
Adding fun in education will reduce element of stubbornness
If you are working parent make it possible that kid do his homework in your assistance. You will also involve in his school activities and he will feel free to tell you everything about school and gradually the stubbornness will come to an end.
Continuous encouragement method
And search methods you neglect little flaws and mistakes of kid.rather you will support him and encourage him frequently. This sense will develop confidence in kid next time we will try to prove him by doing something good.
Engage kids with household works
Kids love to be a part of households specially washing clothes with fun is their favourite activity. This habit in one side will develop a sense of responsibility in them on other side they will consider themselves a responsible person of family. Kids also love to work in kitchen specially making of fun items of their choices for example pizza chips.
Inducement of gifts
In such method you induce your kid with a gift. Gift will consider as a reward of any good deed whether it’s related to education or behave in good way. Four examples many parents from their kids to pass certain class and they will gift them anything of their choice. It is a very effective method for small ones too.
Little special surprises
Kids love to give surprise and get surprises keep in view their psychology and you will get the results for example any good test your kids deserve a cupcake. It will make kids bonding with you on the other hand educational difficulties will come to an end.
Boost their energy
Kids are charged by fun programs like hiking ,fishing, swimming… if you engage them such activities energy level will boost. Their mental and physical health will also improve.
Don’t scold them for misbehaving
Always behave like friends don’t scold them if they miss behave but you can limited your conversation with them to make them realise that they are on fault. In such way they will never repeat this. If you will scold them again naturally they will lose soft corner that come after misbehaving.
Have keen eyeon their performance
If you make this habit to question your kids daily about their studies ,test ,homeworks ,activities they will also take care about their performance.
Don’t leave them in isolation
If your kid want isolation suddenly so don’t let them do this try to make them busy in any activity.isolation leads to self pitiness.
Less advices more practicals
Often advises make kids rebilious. They Will not take care about your emotions in future.rather try to be more practical .be with them personally so a sense of friendship and company develop.
Make Daily attendance possible
Try to make sure daily attendance full.it will help kid to be punctual in life and no lose of school work will be.he will be updated with the test , syllabus and activities.
Behave like hidden psychologist
Very silently observe kid.help him in various matters where there is need . discuss daily matters with him.try to open his/ her heart so in future he don’t hesitate to tell you any thing which is unusual.
Suggestions for parents
Here are some suggestions to tackle your kid smartly,having fun in life to educate home in better way…
Don’t be frustrated
If things are not going well don’t be frustrated and keep calm.try to find actual solution of problem rather than criticizing little ones on their mistakes.
Don’t be disappointed
Don’t be disappointed if in present things are not in your control,all will be set with little effort and stretegy.
Change is a slow process
Things take time to happen therefore don’t expect immediate results of your parenting.results will be slow but will be long lasting.
Spare time for your kids
Whether you are busiest person on earth or you are free it’s your duty and kids right to give them time, affection.so make this possible in any case.
Some decisions are quick to made for the sake of your kids.when it comes to their education and concerns .
Both parents involment
In tackling kids mother and father both should be involve and distribute their responsibilities in such a way that balance the educational needs of kids.
Arouse kid in yourself
Unless you arouse kid in you,you can’t reach to the mentality of kids.so with kids behave like kids.
Recreational activities with kids
You have to make a strong relationship with your kids for this purpose you have to make ofently make plans of recreational activities.
Little celebrations of kids
Always remember about little kids celebrations for example their birthdays their results in this way kids will come near you mentally and you can mold them according to their needs.
Don’t hasitates to discuss
You should discuss matters that are necessary for them to be informed either they are sexual matters or behavioural.
At last we close our discussion reaching on this point that kids never should be ignored and to educate the kids is a complex process that can be made easy to add fun in it come closer to your kids mentally and physically to feel them secure and to make them a successful person in life