Being On the Same Vibe
Good chemistry with someone indicates that the vibrations of your emotions and thoughts are parallel (these could be positive or negative vibrations). It works the same way with your feelings; if you ‘tune’ them to a certain frequency, you will be drawn to other people whose feelings are also tuned to that frequency.
A good or negative vibration is produced by every thought and feeling that passes through your mind and body. In the same way that a scale of radio frequencies makes use of numbers to differentiate between different radio channels, a scale of emotional frequencies makes use of distinct sensations to differentiate between different emotional channels.
The emotional scale developed by Esther and Jerry Hicks is my personal favourite. Below, they devised a scale comprising 22 different emotional set points. Using this scale, you may determine where you are emotionally at the moment and which feelings you need to go through to get to where you want to be.
Summary
The people you are drawn to tend to have a perspective on life compared to yours, while the individuals who turn you off tend to have a perspective on life that is extremely dissimilar to yours.