How to tackle the situation and control yourself –when a friendship breaks up
Being a human being, we all come across the situation when our friendship breaks up due to uncertain and complex factors, and unprecedented situations. It’s almost very difficult for a person to control himself and to tackle the unfavorable situation happened to him. In most of the cases a person not only gets hurts but he goes into depression that affect his personal and family life. Here we will first discuss the causes why friendships break up.
Irremediable fault
In most cases difference of interest, contrary arguments or disagreements can end up a friendship. Major or repeated breaches of trust or huge disappointments.
Shifting in life phase
As we know that life of an individual has different stages: childhood, younghood, adult and older stage and during each stage we have different fellows around us and during this social mobility or social contract ours friend also change, we lost most of our school friends when we enter the college life and so on. So, at different stages of life, we make new friends but we also move far away from most of our old friends as we have different field of interest and different profession so it becomes difficult to get in touch them. But some friendships bonds are so strong that these changes couldn’t affect them and their amicable relations exist for long last.
The gap in communication
The communication gap also becomes the reason of breaks up in friendship. Due to their difference in communication styles it almost impossible to maintain the relation. What is need for it to respect, understand and give room to the different opinions and views. There is great saying ''Friendships are voluntary relationships that have to be reciprocal,” Levine adds. “If one person wants more of a relationship than the other, it rarely works.”
So, it is some of the reason that breaks up the friendship now we discuss in the preceding paragraphs how to tackle it.
Breaks up, whatever the relationship be, it hurts a lot and it’s natural not a naïve thing to get upset or depressed on such situation. Such situation seems like to be unavoidable and occur with anyone so in such time what should do get out such situation here are some tips.
Keep busy yourself
In such difficult times, a man usually gets himself to confines in room, does not sleep, using drugs and avoids food. But it all has bad impact on his health.so the best way to get rid of this is to keep busy yourself in any activity whatever it will be, it diverts your intention from that.
Be optimistic
During such time, what u all is needed to be optimistic, don not overwhelm the pessimistic thinking on yourself. The more you will be optimistic, the more it will be good for you.
Accept your mistakes
Try to find your mistakes and have the courage to accept and ask for forgiveness. Although It is not an easy task but you should try to it.
Conclusion
Thousands of breaks up and patch up occur every second in this world. We should not get hurt or depressed is such hard times. We need to find and accept our mistakes, give room to the contrary opinion and respect each other.